Most people are unconsciously saying: “Lead my life“. Instead of taking charge of their own mind and direction, they follow the herd, singing along with “tell me what to do, lead my life”.
So then, creating freedom in your life has a cost.
- You will have to start questioning previous assumptions about life
- You will have to start making your own decisions.
For most people, that doesn’t go too well. Because most people are used to living by a pre-defined script and being told what to do.
For me, I learned to lead my life early on, because I had to. A shitty child-hood left me no choice. So, I made smarter decisions for me and my life-path than what other people around me would do.
Humans are easy to lead, as they have no training in how to lead their own lives.
So, when you are tired of the script (school, a job, a meaningless life), you don’t know what to do. Because you were never given the tools for self-empowerment.
You’re incapable of leading your own life in a meaningful direction. This creates a downward spiral, rendering the human paralyzed. And often depressed.
You have two options
Now, when this happens, you have two options:
- You can lie down and wait for life to be over.
- You can decide that you’re not that weak.
You have the option to decide that you are not dependent on being carried around to make life work. You don’t need a huge signpost around every corner to tell you where to go.
You can decide to take power over the “system” that made you weak.
Last night, I had a conversation with a quite lovely guy who had lost his top athlete career because of high-risk training and a head injury. He can’t have a job or be employed anymore.
Intuitively, my mind thought of “coach.” So I asked:
“Have you thought about being a remote top athlete mindset coach and offering your skills according to your capacity? You could work from anywhere.”
His response was: “I never thought of that 🤔”
I‘m sure, by reading this email, you understand now why he never thought of that. In his mind, the only option was to be employed.
We left last night seeing a man with new inspiration and a possible new purpose.
Creating your own income can come from more options than you think. It does not have to be web design like I do; you may have other qualities.
I want to lead my life – how to break through
I believe an important realization is to see what has caused you to become less capable to steer your own ship.
How come you think that following a limiting pre-defined program like school, just getting a job, or following “norms”, that is not even configured for your unique individuality, will make you happy?
Do fully live life in a manner that is suited for you and your soul-path, you should be the one directing your life. You should be making the decisions on what to learn, how to learn it, your job, passions and purpose.
If you say “I want to lead my life“, then you can’t keep following your boss’s or societies leadership.
But believe me,
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